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        <h1 id="一些心里话"><a href="#一些心里话" class="headerlink" title="一些心里话"></a>一些心里话</h1><p>想要说的东西太多，一篇文章不能表达所有的意思，更不能让你完全明白我想说的，希望能多思考一点</p>
<a id="more"></a>

<h2 id="为什么要写这些东西"><a href="#为什么要写这些东西" class="headerlink" title="为什么要写这些东西"></a>为什么要写这些东西</h2><p>生活越来越难，今后的生活会更难，这不是杞人忧天。如今感觉不到只不过就像温水煮青蛙，一点变热而已。写这些东西只是想你们有点思考，想想怎么改变，并一点点去改变。</p>
<h2 id="家庭问题"><a href="#家庭问题" class="headerlink" title="家庭问题"></a>家庭问题</h2><p>就目前来说家里的问题不少。当然这不是说是某个人的错，我把大家的毛病都写下来看看</p>
<h3 id="我自己"><a href="#我自己" class="headerlink" title="我自己"></a>我自己</h3><p>先说我自己吧，在处理家庭问题上，我是一直感觉我们应该是一家人，而不是仇人，应该没有比我们更亲的人。所以我的在处理家庭问题上也是尽量想把大家揉在一起，但是我发现我错了。</p>
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<li>准确来说我们是 3 个或者 3 个以上的家庭，是一张结婚证把我们连在了一起，可是我们仍是 3 家人。</li>
<li>每个人的性格都不一样，想法，观念都有很大的不同，不应该揉在一起</li>
<li>我总是希望你们彼此理解对方，然后把你们的想法告诉对方，让对方去理解，可是结果总是坏的，因为我没考虑到，互相理解是很难的事情，甚至可能做不到</li>
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<h3 id="我爸爸"><a href="#我爸爸" class="headerlink" title="我爸爸"></a>我爸爸</h3><p>我其实是挺佩服前半辈子的他的。可是后半辈子，他没了以前的那种冲劲，热情，他甚至也把自己看成了一个老头，我没到那个年纪可能我不能理解。但是我感觉人应该在精神上是没有年龄的。</p>
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<li>固执，这世界上没有真理，总是坚持自己所谓的真理而蔑视其他人的想法</li>
<li>我是老子。我是你爸，我说你，我还打你呢。</li>
<li>我老了，干不动了，你让我干啥</li>
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<h3 id="我妈妈"><a href="#我妈妈" class="headerlink" title="我妈妈"></a>我妈妈</h3><p>我妈真是无条件的爱我，可是真是这种爱，反而害了我跟小倩。我们从小懦弱，怕事。</p>
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<li>一味的爱，可是爱不是解决问题的办法，人性天生懒得，贪婪，不断的施舍，只会换来不断的索取</li>
<li>不爱动脑子，总感觉没文化，不愿意多学习，一直都像个孩子，总是喜欢做自己喜欢的事情，不喜欢的事情就用各种理由推脱</li>
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<h3 id="我媳妇"><a href="#我媳妇" class="headerlink" title="我媳妇"></a>我媳妇</h3><p>燕秋作为一个跟我们没有血缘关系人来到这个家庭，并与我组成新的家庭，其实是付出挺多的。可是她也总认为自己应该是个公主，总感觉我爱她就应该无限的宠她</p>
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<li>只会享受生活，人生不止有生活，而且也不可能只有生活</li>
<li>自制力差，不爱动脑筋</li>
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<li>社会的发展趋势，我们必须往上爬，不仅仅是经济上的</li>
<li>如今的家庭问题很多也是经济上的问题</li>
<li>为了自己老了不用麻烦孩子</li>
<li>为了孩子能有好的未来</li>
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<h2 id="为什么不用害怕改变"><a href="#为什么不用害怕改变" class="headerlink" title="为什么不用害怕改变"></a>为什么不用害怕改变</h2><p>改变是一件很痛苦的事情，任何人都不喜欢改变，这是人性所致，我们无法改变。但是改变又是一件确定的事情，所以我们只是做一件确定的事情。</p>
<p>钱的问题其实不是很大的问题。就现在来说，咱们的那点钱根本算不上什么钱。如果没了也就没了，握在手里也是没了。</p>
<h2 id="怎么改变"><a href="#怎么改变" class="headerlink" title="怎么改变"></a>怎么改变</h2><ol>
<li>打工肯定不是出路，就目前来看咱们家这么多的闲人，靠打工，根本支撑不了，这不是省钱能解决的，只能增加收入，所以我一直说让做生意，至于怎么做具体再说</li>
<li>改变有很大的风险，跟做生意一样。怎么降低风险才是关键。只有不停的学习，学习各种知识，而不是局限在目前的知识面前</li>
<li>必须抛弃目前家里的矛盾，作为一家人总在这里内耗，外人看了笑话，自己伤了身体</li>
<li>信念坚定，不是说一定能成功，可是至少得认为我们一定能成功</li>
<li>各司其职，各尽其才，其实每个人都有优点只要发挥自己的优点就行，缺点尽量避免他，做好自己的事情，提意见跟指手画脚只有一线之隔</li>
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